AI & advice disclaimer
Last updated August 2026
What To Say Now helps you find words. Everything it suggests is generated by AI and should be read, edited and judged by you before you send it.
AI can get it wrong
AI-generated wording can misread nuance, miss important context, or sound off for your specific relationship. Treat every suggestion as a draft, not a recommendation, and never send something that does not feel true to you.
Not professional advice
What To Say Now is not a therapist, lawyer, doctor, financial adviser, mediator, or emergency service. Nothing here is legal, medical, psychological, or financial advice, and using it does not create a professional relationship of any kind.
If a situation is serious
Some situations need a trained person rather than better wording — including thoughts of suicide or self-harm, threats of violence, abuse, or concerns about a child's safety. In those cases the app will stop and point you to support instead of generating a script.
- If someone is in immediate danger: Call your local emergency number (911 in the US and Canada, 999 in the UK, 112 across the EU, 000 in Australia).
- Suicide & crisis support (US / Canada): Call or text 988 — the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7.
- Crisis text support: Text HOME to 741741 (US), 686868 (Canada), or 85258 (UK) to reach a trained crisis counsellor.
- Domestic abuse (US): National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.
- International: findahelpline.com lists free, confidential helplines in almost every country.